Yes Jon has been extremely helpful!!
He has helped me achieve some changes that I would not have been able to do without many fatal errors of which I have become accustomed, and have then had to inlist the techs at Qualiteam to ressurrect my site! But slowly I am getting some order into the way I want my site to run and look even though it is still very much a straight x cart site with no major changes in the original template design wise. For that I will definately need to commission a design expert, but in the meantime.....
I am feeling a bit better about my site now and I think I have come quite a long way in just over three weeks ( although very arduous and stressful ones!! )
LOL I am sure most of the experts here laugh and think omg how dumb is this woman at some of the posts and questions I have made
BUT - you never know some of my little questions and dilemmas may actually be of help to others whom also have no knowledge or experience
Thanx again to all the ppl who have given me advice and have helped me by answerring some of my questions
Kirsten
This is how my eyes are

after too many long nights!