[totaltec]

OK! We got it figured out. The final working code:

{if $pages_menu} 
  <ul id="flexmenu1" class="flexdropdownmenu">
    {foreach from=$pages_menu item=p name=page}
      {if $p.show_in_menu eq 'Y' && $p.orderby gte "100" && $p.orderby lte "199" }
        <li><a href="pages.php?pageid={$p.pageid}">{$p.title|amp} </a></li>
      {/if}
    {/foreach}
  </ul>
  <ul id="flexmenu2" class="flexdropdownmenu">
    {foreach from=$pages_menu item=p name=page}
      {if $p.show_in_menu eq 'Y' && $p.orderby gte "200" && $p.orderby lte "299" }
        <li><a href="pages.php?pageid={$p.pageid}">{$p.title|amp} </a></li>
      {/if}
    {/foreach}
  </ul>
{/if}

{if $speed_bar}
  <div class="tabs{if $all_languages_cnt gt 1} with_languages{/if} monitor">
    <ul>
      {foreach from=$speed_bar item=sb name=tabs}
        {strip}
          <li{interline name=tabs}>
            <a href="{$sb.link|amp}"{if $sb.title eq "Cemetery Memorials"} data-flexmenu="flexmenu1" {elseif $sb.title eq "Support"} data-flexmenu="flexmenu2" {elseif $sb.title eq "Purchase"} data-flexmenu="flexmenu3" {elseif $sb.title eq "About Us"} data-flexmenu="flexmenu4" {/if}>
              {$sb.title}
              <img src="{$ImagesDir}/spacer.gif" alt="" /></a>
              <div class="t-l"></div><div class="t-r"></div>
          </li>
        {/strip}
      {/foreach}
    </ul>
  </div>
{/if} 

A key part is that the speed bar menu is linked to the pages menu, based on the name of the speed bar item and the position value of the page.