Ok, but your not telling me any differences. I have a dedicated server with 8GB ram. So what are the differences between hosters?
Here is the response from Jon at websitecm:
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cdseopro.php is showing as the URI component because it runs the majority of the x-cart pages (products/categories/manufacturers/static pages). The script itself has been load tested against x-cart's default php files and shows very little overhead. Likely the problem is that CDSEO is allowing search engine spiders to spider your site heavily resulting in more processes, and ideally CDSEO would also be increasing your traffic from customers further increasing your server usage.
To adjust to the traffic increase you'll probably want to modify your mysql settings (this is something you would need to do with increased traffic even if CDSEO was not enabled). By modifying the mysql settings you can increase the # of allowed connections while lowering the time these sessions are kept open. This is something a server support company would typically be able to do on your behalf.
You should also change wait_timeout to 15
Jon Peters
WebsiteCM Support Team