I am not going to lecture you, but I will suggest how to successfully manage the forum and the community:
1. A shopping list of all the things you need done to your store to me sounds like you need a pro - so break it down. Ask one question, and get one answer, then move on.
2. Moving includes around would be xcart template editing 101. Have you read the template editing FAQ?
3. When asking a question, be very specific what you need, and what you've tried to do to get there...
4. When in doubt, search before you ask... your answer probably has been discussed -- and if not recently, you can expand on the original post with your unique circumstances.
PS -- set your forum search prefs to "expert". Read this:
http://forum.x-cart.com/showthread.php?t=25173
Remember, baby steps...