If I undertsand your question correctly, the processed notification template is order_customer_processed.tpl.
Here are the contents.
Code:
{* $Id: order_customer_processed.tpl,v 1.13 2002/10/22 05:45:16 alfiya Exp $ *}
{config_load file="$skin_config"}
{$lng.lbl_dear} {$customer.firstname}!
{$lng.eml_order_processed}
{$lng.lbl_order_id}: #{$order.orderid}
{$lng.lbl_order_date}: {$order.date|date_format:"%d.%m.%Y %H:%M"}
{if $order.tracking}
{$lng.lbl_tracking_number}: {$order.tracking}
{/if}
{include file="mail/order_data.tpl"}
{include file="mail/signature.tpl"}
This should explain why you are not getting the address info. It is not in the template.
