UPgrade
 

I do not know how to upgrade successfully, Kathy will you give me a detailed description on how to upgrade, or is it in some faq somewhere.

I'm sorry, I can't instruct you how to upgrade. There are FAQ here on the forums to help answer those questions. In my case, I hire one of the pros here to do it for me.

I tweak things here and there while he does big stuff for hire.

Sorry I can't be of more help to you!

Never tried it before, but the basics say you upload the new files to the server and run patch from admin area.